Some men are just emotionally unavailable and has relations with women for solely primal, sexual and monetary needs. If your man lacks a moral conscience, does not feel empathy, does not show concerns and will not take accountability for his actions, you should be very aware. He might be a narcissist.
Narcissist is emotionally unavailable and breeze in and out of relationships. If he is back again, it is likely that he will leave again. Even if he stays for good this time around, the relationship will not be less torturous than the one before. In most cases he is likely to amplify the abuse because he can confirm that you are weak, and that he can do anything he wants with you.
Here are some reasons why the narcissist may be back in your life again:
MEASURE THE DEGREE OF YOUR VULNERABILIY
He is trying to find out, if you are still hooked on him and if you have matured beyond him.
He likes attention and he cannot obtain it elsewhere, temporarily, therefore he is seeking out one of his discarded supplies that are always in storage for his droughts
ENJOY YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS
Your life has been improved and he wants to enjoy your accomplishments through proxy. Whether it is monetary assistance based on your salary, the social connections that your job consequent or just the mere thought of saying my girlfriend is the CEO for Goldman Sachs.
He wants to have sex and you are readily available. Instead of having to act and woo a new supply the somatic narcissist will no doubt run for the fall back girl.
He misses you. He does not miss you as a person. He misses the attention and the adulation that you gave him that he is probably unable to get anywhere else.
Whatever the reason be for the return of your narcissist, be rest assure he is leaving again when he begins to despise you for being weak and when he has discovered a more challenging potential supply.
My hippy advise? Take a stand.